TheLoneGunman

44 – Hartford, Connecticut, United States

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Online: More than 6 months ago

Modified: More than 6 months ago

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About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Hartford, Connecticut, United States
Gender:
Male
Age:
44
Star Sign:
Aries
Height:
6' 0" (183cm)
Body Type:
A few extra pounds
Looks:
Average
Hair Colour:
Ask me later
Eye Colour:
Green
Ethnicity:
White/Caucasian
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Afrikaans
Religion:
Ask me later
Relationship Status:
Ask me later
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Yes
Daily Diet:
Ask me later
Smoking:
Regular
Drinking:
Non-Drinker
Education:
Postgraduate degree
Occupation:
Other
Income:
Ask me later

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
Anywhere in North America
Location:
Anywhere in the United States
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
Any
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
Any
Body Type:
Any
Looks:
Any
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Slightly important
Ethnicity:
Any
Home Language:
English
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Relationship Status:
Any
Have Children:
No
Want Children:
Maybe
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Occasional; Regular; Heavy
Drinking:
Any
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Any
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

I like laughter, intelligence, and drama-free living. Life is too short to be whiny and miserable, or generally negative without having the ability to laugh at oneself.
Of course that's not to say I don't enjoy grumbling, or wildly sarcastic comments - but underneath it all, is a certain ghoulish cheerful humor, and a certain kind of Zen chilled approach to life and reality.
I'm a happy nerd, a big film buff, theatre fan, and a pop culture fan in general. No fact is too dumb for me :) I tend to be interested in just about everything. Except sport. I just really can't manufacture enthusiasm about something so arbitrary as 'sport'. That said, I'm no snob. I'll enjoy the sheer stupidity of big monster trucks, along with the rest of the mouth breathers - but I'm happy to switch from that to debate on politics and current affairs, and whatever high culture topics are of interest.

About His Ideal Match

How to achieve the impossible - describing the 'ideal match'.

I guess I'm looking for someone who can make me laugh, as I would want to enjoy doing the same for them. That's what (to me anyway) relationships should be about. Shared fun, laughter and seeing the world for what it is; a big adventure playground through which one is traveling.
Sure things might get grim here and there, but so what? Life isn't about grim banal misery, its about cheerfully understanding that most things probably suck - but its still okay, and good humor and laughs make for great insulation against the big mean nasty dark world outside.
What am I looking for? Someone who's worked through enough of their own baggage, to 'get me' - and understand that I'm operating in a similar way.
I like curious people. People who aren't fearful of speaking up for what they believe in, and who aren't afraid to stand out or crack jokes. Some personal ethics and morality mixed in with that, would be great - to go along with my own.
I'm not into the narrow minded or fearful people - I can't relate to folks who are overly concerned with 'what others might think'.
Does this help clarify things?
Sweeet :)

What His Friends Say

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More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Short
Eyesight:
I wear glasses
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Disabilities:
I have none
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Goofy
Intelligence:
Rocket Scientist
Ruled by:
The heart
Party Behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality Traits:
Funny; Intelligent; Outrageous; Outspoken; Shy; Stable
Valued Qualities:
Compassion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Patience
Fashion Sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Favourite Clothing:
Anything, as long as it's black
Favourite Colour:
Black
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
Meeting for coffee
Music Preferences:
Blues; Classical; Instrumental; Jazz; New Age; World
Books:
Fiction; Horror; Sci-Fi
TV Shows:
Documentaries; News
Movie Preferences:
Action; Art Films; Documentary; Horror; Independent; Romance
Interests:
Computer & video games; Writing books
Sport Involvement:
Bored to death
Food
Cooking:
I quite like cooking
Food:
Chinese; Greek; Indian
Go Out to Eat:
I only eat out on special occasions
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Go with the flow
Time at Work:
What's work?
Pastimes of choice:
Watching TV or a movie
Time Online:
I'm online more than I'm offline
Take Drugs:
Not any more
Family Size:
I've got a sister
Family Closeness:
We're dysfunctional
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I like them Well Done ;)
Pets (Like):
Cat(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Erotica; Intelligence; Showing affection in public
Turn-offs:
Long hair; Power; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking; Wealth
The Deep Stuff
Religious Attendance:
Doesn't apply
Dream Home:
Loft in the city
Politics:
Anarchic
Retirement Plans:
Sailing the seven seas
Honesty:
Very