In Her Own Words
About Her
Will do this much later - time is a factor at this stage and will need to get back to do this properly
About Her Ideal Match
The Invitation..........
It doesn't interest me what you do for a living.
I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream
of meeting your heart's longing.
It doesn't interest me how old you are, I want to
know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your
dream, for the adventure of being alive.
It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon.
I want to know if you have touched the center of your
own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have
become shriveld and closed from fear of further pain. I want
to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without,moving to hide it or fade it or fix it.
I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own,
if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you
to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us
to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human.
It doesn't interst me if the story you are telling me is true.
I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true
to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not
betray your own soul; if you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.
I want to know if you can see beauty, even when it's not pretty,
every day, and if you can source your own life from its presence
I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine,
and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the
silver of the full moon, "YES!"
It doesn't interst me to know where you live or how much
money you have. I want to know if you can get up, after
the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone,
and do what needs to be done to feed the children.
It doesn't interst me who you know or how you came
to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of
the fire with me and not shrink back.
I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and
if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria (Centurion), Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star Sign: |
Sagittarius | |
Height: |
162cm (5' 3.8") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Changes Often | |
Eye Colour: |
Hazel | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Other | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
Maybe | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Regular | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
High / secondary school | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
44 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
178cm (5' 10.1") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Not important at all | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
Any | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
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