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thokoa5331

43 – Lydenburg (Mashishing) (Steelpoort), Mpumalanga, South Africa

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Online: Saturday

Modified: 24 August 2020

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About Him

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Lydenburg (Mashishing) (Steelpoort), Mpumalanga, South Africa
Gender:
Male
Age:
43
Star Sign:
Libra
Height:
172cm (5' 7.7")
Body Type:
Average
Looks:
Above Average
Hair Colour:
Black
Eye Colour:
Hazel
Ethnicity:
Black/African
Home Language:
Ask me later
Other Languages:
Sesotho; Swati; Tswana; Zulu
Religion:
Other
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Looking for:
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage
Have Children:
Yes, not living with me
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Eat most things
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Non-Drinker
Education:
Bachelors degree
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Engineering
Income:
Comfortable

About His Ideal Match

Country of Origin:
South Africa
Location:
Anywhere in South Africa
Gender:
Female
Age Range:
25 - 45
Star Sign:
Any
Height:
140cm (4' 7.1") or shorter - 176cm (5' 9.3")
Body Type:
Any
Looks:
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive
Hair Colour:
Any
Eye Colour:
Any
Has a Photo:
Moderately important
Ethnicity:
Any
Home Language:
Any
Other Languages:
Any
Religion:
Any
Relationship Status:
Single
Have Children:
Any
Want Children:
No
Daily Diet:
Any
Smoking:
Non-Smoker
Drinking:
Non-Drinker
Education:
Any
Occupation:
Any
Income:
Comfortable
  • Not important at all
  • Slightly important
  • Moderately important
  • Decidedly important
  • Non-negotiable

In His Own Words

About Him

I am a rebel and artist at heart...I see the world in shades of grey...everything can be and nothing has to be...and only reason and context separates what should be and what should not be...I am ideal for the one whose worldview is not constrained by the known and the "as is".

I dare say that I am witty, creative and compassionate...I let people be, and I like to be afforded the same favour in return. I am agnostic, so I hold the view that the values we hold are far more binding to the human race than the reasons we give to holding them

I try to be modest, sensitive and unassuming...i find happiness and intrique in the most mundane of things...being considerate and taking the time to perform little acts of service is my greatest form of expression for the people I hold dear....

A bit of a nomad, a tint of heightened idealism and naivitism... I keep a few very close friends... I value close meaningful relationships... I believe the world can be a better place... and that somewhere out there... a girl exist, whose heart is my heart....and my heart is her heart....

I am not seeking to "settle"...the word gives me creeps...lol...i am looking for someone whose heart will be my heart, and her heart...my heart....in my silly head, calling the act of finding love and living happily ever after "settling" causes it to sound rather drab...rather like something you opt for when your energy to lead a meaningfulexistence runs out....

P.S!!!....I prefer to chat to people with atleast one visible photo please.....

About His Ideal Match

I just love a woman who is comfortable in her own skin, has her own views about things and yet still understands the relativeness that governs human interactions and can therefore effortlessly make sense of people from their own perspectives

I value depth and am seeking a happy medium of similarities and differences...enough similarities for an effortless and homely space and enough differences for a bit of excitement and amusement...a relationship that needs a lot of work is probably not worth having...or so i think.

That being said... I prefer people that are considerate...love spending time, are affectionate, practical, value close meaningful and holistic type of relationships, are 'open minded' about things and carry realistic ideals about themselves and their relative importance

The qualities I value the most in a partner are honesty, openness and compassion... I am open to surprises with regards to everything else........

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More About Him

More Physical Characteristics
Hair Style:
Short
Eyesight:
I've got 20/20 vision
Facial Hair:
I'm clean-shaven
Body Hair:
Light
Disabilities:
I have none
Body Art:
I don't have any
Personality
Sense of Humour:
Light-hearted
Intelligence:
Intelligent
Ruled by:
The head
Party Behaviour:
An impartial observer
Personality Traits:
Easy going; Intelligent; Naive; Optimistic
Valued Qualities:
Compassion; Friendliness; Honesty
Fashion Sense:
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way)
Favourite Clothing:
Shorts & a T-shirt
Favourite Colour:
Blue
Leisure & Entertainment
Date Activities:
A movie; A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach
Music Preferences:
Country & Western; Folk; Jazz; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; World
Reading:
I love it
Books:
History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology
TV Habits:
I watch a few favourite shows each week
TV Shows:
Documentaries; Nature / Wildlife; Reality shows
Movie Frequency:
Occasionally or irregularly
Movie Preferences:
Drama; War
Interests:
Photography; Reading; Woodworking
Sport Involvement:
Watching from the sidelines
Sports:
Fishing; Horse Riding; Soccer; Wrestling
Food
Cooking:
I have to cook
Food:
South African
Go Out to Eat:
I eat out a few times a month
Dietary Restrictions:
I have none
More Lifestyle
Pace of Life:
Stressed
Time at Work:
I DO have a bed in my office!
Pastimes of choice:
Doing absolutely nothing
Time Online:
I'm on for an hour or two a day
Take Drugs:
Never
Family Size:
I've got brothers and sisters
Family Closeness:
We're average
Relationship Type:
I'm just plain single
Willing to Relocate:
I'm flexible
Likes & Dislikes
Animals:
I like animals
Pets (Have):
Cat(s); Dog(s); Other
Pets (Like):
Horse(s)
Turn-ons:
Assertiveness; Intelligence
The Deep Stuff
Work Aspirations:
Fire the boss
Religious Attendance:
Never
Dream Home:
Other
Politics:
Liberal
Retirement Plans:
Doing volunteer work
Feelings about using Ananzi Dating:
Hopeful
Honesty:
Quite