In Her Own Words
About Her
Life’s too short not to laugh — especially at your own jokes (which I do, frequently and proudly 😄). I’m the type who’ll dance in the kitchen, sing like no one’s listening (even though everyone probably is), and stop mid-conversation to pet a passing dog.
I’m endlessly curious, easily amused, and genuinely believe that the glass isn’t just half full — it’s refillable. I adore animals, love a good rhythm, and think positivity is the best outfit anyone can wear (and yes, it goes with everything).
I love people, kindness and finding joy in the little things, like sharing a cup of tea with good friends or the wag of a dogs tail.
Music speaks directly to my heart. There is always music in my life, whether singing loudly off key in the car, or just slow dancing on the beach. Yes, I'm a helpless romantic and still believe that my soul mate is out there looking for me....
I'm young at heart and playful in spirit and I believe that a true relationship begins with a good friendship.
I'm not in a rush - let's laugh, talk about everything and nothing, and see where things lead. A great conversation, shared values and a spark of fun is all that I'm looking for right now.
About Her Ideal Match
If you have a kind heart, and still believe in the magic of connection, I'd love to hear from you.
Bonus points if you love animals and have a great sense of humor — or at least laugh at mine.
Let's enjoy life together, love is waiting for us.... Come on!!!!
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Durban (Hillcrest), KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
57 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
162cm (5' 3.8") | |
Body Type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Light Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Teacher / Professor | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Durban (KwaZulu-Natal, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
55 - 67 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
160cm (5' 3.0") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any; Pierced ears |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Naive; Optimistic; Outgoing; Silly |
Valued Qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Meeting for coffee; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Fiction; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I watch a few favourite shows each week |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature / Wildlife; News; Variety shows |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Drama; Mystery |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Painting; Sculpting; Sewing; Singing; Surfing the Internet |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Athletics; Camping; Gymnastics |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; French; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Playing with my pet |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're very close |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping |
Turn-offs: |
Assertiveness; Body piercing(s); Power; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Feelings about using Ananzi Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |